December 17th

Remember that guy who made my life Hell a while ago?  I wrote a really long entry in here not that long ago (I don't think it was that long, anyway?) about it all.  But anyway.  I saw him today.  And for the first time since the two of us stopped talking, seeing him didn't make me upset.  I didn't want to be alone and cry.  I didn't feel the usual fiery hatred I feel when I see him.  I didn't get angry at the world.  Seeing him didn't bring me back to the past, didn't make me wonder what I had done wrong or how I had messed everything up.  I know it wasn't all me, but before, seeing him would make me wonder why I had messed up.  This time, it was almost like... like I didn't know him at all.  I think I'm happy about that.  I think that means that maybe I really have moved on from before, which is great.

And on a completely different note, I'm really proud of myself for actually updating on here every day so far this month.  Have I already said that?  I feel like I just said that yesterday, but I don't think I did.  Actually, I'm pretty sure I didn't.  Whatever.  Whether I said it or not, yesterday or not, I'm still proud of myself.  I thought for sure I would have missed a day by now.  But I haven't.  :)

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